4559 How Many Partners Does Enjoyment Make?
Date: Mon, 14 Aug 2006 17:00:42 EDT
From: ATANGO2@aol.com
Subject: [Tango-L] How Many Partners Does Enjoyment Make?
To: tango-l@mit.edu
From a previous posting "The key to tango is to enjoy your
dance."
How about the "key to tango is how well your partner enjoys the dance" or
"your partner enjoys the dance at least as much as you do."
Polly in Portland
All Things Argentine Tango
Date: Mon, 14 Aug 2006 22:55:22 -0400
From: "Michael" <tangomaniac@cavtel.net>
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] How Many Partners Does Enjoyment Make?
To: <ATANGO2@aol.com>, <tango-l@mit.edu>
Cc: Michael <tangomaniac@cavtel.net>
While we can't control how well our partner enjoys the dance, we definitely can influence it. Do women take their hands off the steering wheel? Do men WAIT for the woman to respond to the lead before moving? I admit that I once had a testosterone based idea of tango. The more complex the figure executed at the speed of light, the better. One day I went to Jiffy Lube to replace the oil in my car. After they drained the oil, they drained of some of my testosterone. Then I REALLY started to learn what "pleasing your partner" meant. To me, figures are meaningless without connection. Simple things done well to the music can cause immense pleasure. An example is a well timed cross in the ocho cortado at the end of phrase. Another is leading a leg wrap so it's timed to the last note of a Pugliese tango.
I remember very well a woman at a NY practica several years ago. After dancing with me, she danced with a hotshot who was worlds better than me. (He still is.) She looked fantastic, better than I could ever make her look. When it was over, she told me she hated it because she felt "tested." Another example of the maxim "All that glitters is NOT gold."
Michael Ditkoff
Washington, DC
Soaking my sprained ankle in hot water, hoping not to electrocute myself
I'd rather be dancing Argentine Tango
From: ATANGO2@aol.com
Subject: [Tango-L] How Many Partners Does Enjoyment Make?
From a previous posting "The key to tango is to enjoy your dance."
How about the "key to tango is how well your partner enjoys the dance" or "your partner enjoys the dance at least as much as you do."
Polly in Portland
All Things Argentine Tango
Date: Tue, 15 Aug 2006 09:16:53 -0700 (PDT)
From: burl burl <burlq7@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] How Many Partners Does Enjoyment Make?
To: tango-l@mit.edu
1001 cliches
yours
Burleigh
ATANGO2@aol.com wrote:
From a previous posting "The key to tango is to enjoy your
dance."
How about the "key to tango is how well your partner enjoys the dance" or
"your partner enjoys the dance at least as much as you do."
Polly in Portland
All Things Argentine Tango
