Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 01:11:08 +0000 
From:    Lucia <curvasreales@YAHOO.COM.AR> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Madam, 
  
Some people are born athletes. Some are not. Some are born dancers, some are not. These are natural traits, gifts, and one may not achieve the hoped for resultats, regardless of the effort put in. 
  
One has to realize his/her own limitations, and be at peace. As the Greeks were saying, "Know thyself". 
  
What amazes me is that you have continued teaching this person for one year, raising his hopes while being totally aware of his problem. The teachers that I know hold an audition for the prospective pupils, and reject those without talent. 
  
I consider this case being on the border of ethical behavior. 
  
Lucia 
  
Barbara Garvey <barbara@TANGOBAR-PRODUCTIONS.COM> escribis: 
Dear listeros, 
Al and I are struggling with a challenge we haven't met before. One of 
our students seems to have absolutely no sense of rhythm. We've been 
working with D'Arienzo/Biaggi, etc, but so far to no avail. He is very 
enthusiastic about tango, practices at home with his wife, has been 
studying with us for a year, and is also a dear friend. This man is an 
accomplished athlete (mainly golf and archery) and is extremely 
disciplined. Has anyone had experience with this situation either 
personally or as a teacher? 
We truly don't want him to discouraged after all he has put into tango. 
Advice??? 
Barbara 
  
PS. Our website is finally updated; please visit it! We'll keep it 
current with Puerto Vallarta tango news, and any links to tango in 
Mexico we can find. Go to: www.tangobar-productions.com. 
  
		 
 Abrm tu cuenta aqum 
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Mon, 24 Oct 2005 21:52:07 EDT 
From:    Bill King <Euroking@AOL.COM> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Lucia, 
  
I swore that I would never rise to the bait, and feed the trolls, but 
AUDITIONS to learn a social dance????  Is Argentine Tango such an elitist dance that 
one has to pass a test to be able to learn and if they can't keep up your out. 
You have to be joking. 
  
I would agree that there are natural traits, that not all can run 4 minute 
miles, nor can they be trained to do so anymore than the vast majority of us 
could ever dance at the Bolshoi, no matter how much time we give to the endeavor. 
 But that does not mean we cannot jog or dance at a milonga.  Some a better 
than others, all that try are going to improve, maybe a little here and a 
little there.  All can have fun and enjoy the great music. 
  
Teachers are great because they can take and improve someone who wants to 
learn. Good teachers do not discourage any attempt to learn, they nurture it. 
When they have problems getting a student to achieve a certain result, they 
consult with peers to see what is in someone else's "Bag of Tricks" that might be 
of help.  If a student wants to learn they will. If they reach a point of 
diminishing returns they will stop, but it is a teacher's duty to encourage NOT 
discourage. Honesty is needed, you can't lead a student on, if you try it wound 
not be for long, as they will see through your insincerity.  The quest is the 
goal not perfection. 
  
If you were joking or being facetious, I apologize, as I missed it.  But the 
teacher student relationship is a nurturing relationship not one of homage. 
  
Just some thoughts, 
  
Bill in Seattle 
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Mon, 24 Oct 2005 21:05:41 -0500 
From:    "Christopher L. Everett" <ceverett@CEVERETT.COM> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Lucia wrote: 
  
 >Madam, 
> 
>Some people are born athletes. Some are not. Some are born dancers, some are not. These are natural traits, gifts, and one may not achieve the hoped for resultats, regardless of the effort put in. 
> 
> 
 One need not be the next Juan Carlos Copes to take tango lesson. 
  
 >One has to realize his/her own limitations, and be at peace. As the Greeks were saying, "Know thyself". 
> 
> 
 Possibly the limitation here is one in your thinking.  It took me a year of 
practice before I began consistently stepping on the beat.  I'm sure 
many other people have similar stories to tell. 
  
In any case, people who struggle the hardest to learn, often turn out as 
better dancers than the people with talent.  They have to work harder 
and practice longer for everything and in the end that polishes them into 
diamonds. 
  
 >What amazes me is that you have continued teaching this person for one year, raising his hopes while being totally aware of his problem. 
> 
 I suspect the student is also aware of the problem.  So long as no one 
is being deceived there's no cause for amazement. 
  
 >The teachers that I know hold an audition for the prospective pupils, and reject those without talent. 
> 
> 
 If it works for them fine.  I suppose they have more people wanting to be 
their students than they time to teach. 
  
But then again, I've been to the websites of Gustavo Naveira, Luciana 
Valle, 
and many other prominent tango teachers from BsAs and without seeing 
mention of such an audition. 
  
Who specifically are these teachers you know that audition prospective 
students? 
  
 >I consider this case being on the border of ethical behavior. 
> 
> 
 I think you're going overboard here. 
  
-- 
Christopher L. Everett 
  
Chief Technology Officer                               www.medbanner.com 
MedBanner, Inc.                                          www.physemp.com 
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Mon, 24 Oct 2005 22:01:59 -0600 
From:    Tom Stermitz <stermitz@TANGO.ORG> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Thank you Bill. 
  
The single most important trait to learn tango is desire. 
  
I have seen many students who succeed because they want to, not 
because they have native talent. Probably more than the reverse. 
  
Yes, a good teacher is one who triggers that desire to succeed...and 
gives them the foundation for it. 
  
  
  
On Oct 24, 2005, at 7:52 PM, Bill King wrote: 
  
 > Lucia, 
> ...I would agree that there are natural traits, that not all can 
> run 4 minute 
> miles, nor can they be trained to do so anymore than the vast 
> majority of us 
> could ever dance at the Bolshoi, no matter how much time we give to 
> the endeavor. 
>  But that does not mean we cannot jog or dance at a milonga.  Some 
> a better 
> than others, all that try are going to improve, maybe a little here 
> and a 
> little there.  All can have fun and enjoy the great music. 
> 
> Teachers are great because they can take and improve someone who 
> wants to 
> learn. Good teachers do not discourage any attempt to learn, they 
> nurture it. 
> When they have problems getting a student to achieve a certain 
> result, they 
> consult with peers to see what is in someone else's "Bag of Tricks" 
> that might be 
> of help.  If a student wants to learn they will. If they reach a 
> point of 
> diminishing returns they will stop, but it is a teacher's duty to 
> encourage NOT 
> discourage. Honesty is needed, you can't lead a student on, if you 
> try it wound 
> not be for long, as they will see through your insincerity.  The 
> quest is the 
> goal not perfection. 
> ... 
> Bill in Seattle 
> 
> 
   
  
  
Tom Stermitz 
https://www.tango.org 
2525 Birch St 
Denver, CO 80207 
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Mon, 24 Oct 2005 21:04:31 -0700 
From:    "Trini y Sean (PATangoS)" <patangos@YAHOO.COM> 
Subject: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Hola a todos! 
  
Sean here. 
  
Bill from Seattle, a self proclaimed rhythmically 
challenged student, raised some great points in his 
first post on this thread. 
-thinking too much 
-pressure from a follow, teacher or other 
-balance 
-the music can take over the lead 
-be relaxed and enjoy 
  
Aron is equally on the mark when he suggests 
alternative music 
  
As a reformed rhythmical basket case, I agree with 
every point, and add the following: 
  
Dance alone, every day, to music you love, without 
anyone watching, and without caring if you are getting 
it "right". 
  
In my case, it took much longer than one year to learn 
how to move rhythmically. I'm still learning to relax. 
  
Lucia post is characteristically provocative, but I 
hardly think it qualifies as trolling. She clearly 
identifies her perspective as "The Contrarian view". 
She raises a valid point about ethics. If people will 
cool their flame jets long enough to think the idea 
through, it is possible some useful discussion will 
emerge. 
  
Christopher has adequately defended Barbara's ethical 
honor in this regard. So how about we let that matter 
drop, and address the general question at the root of 
Lucias comment: 
At what point should a teacher send a student who has 
not shown significant progress to someone else? 
I think that in general, it ought to be much sooner 
than one year. 
  
Sean 
  
P.S. My own provocative thoughts: Everyone can be 
taught; it's just easier to teach people with a lot of 
natural talent. IMHO, If the student is not learning, 
it is the fault of the teacher. A teacher who 
auditions students recognizes his own limitations, and 
is doing a favor to those he does not have the ability 
to teach. 
  
  
	 
		 
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 00:16:11 -0400 
From:    WHITE 95 R <white95r@HOTMAIL.COM> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
 >From: Lucia <curvasreales@YAHOO.COM.AR> 
>Madam, 
 >What amazes me is that you have continued teaching this person for one 
>year, raising his hopes while being totally aware of his problem. The 
>teachers that I know hold an audition for the prospective pupils, and 
>reject those without talent. 
> 
>I consider this case being on the border of ethical behavior. 
 Wow Lucia, those are strong words to someone who's only asking for input 
about how to teach a little bit of tango..... I wont argue about the 
auditions, because if your intention is to create tango dancing superstars, 
you'd be right in weeding out all but the best, but this is just about 
social dancing. There is nothing unethical about imparting classes to 
someone who wishes to take them. On the contrary, it's admirable that a 
teacher has the patience and forbearance, and cares enough about their 
pupils to continue their efforts to teach them against apparently 
insurmountable odds. 
  
Teach on Barbara! 
  
Manuel 
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 05:04:33 +0000 
From:    Sergio Vandekier <sergiovandekier990@HOTMAIL.COM> 
Subject: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Lucia says:  "Some people are born athletes. Some are not. Some are born 
dancers, some are 
not. These are natural traits, gifts, and one may not achieve the hoped for 
resultats, regardless of the effort put in." 
  
I can assure you that Lucia's view is shared by a great number of 
Argentines. 
  
When it comes to any artistic activity you are classified very early in life 
as having aptitude and then you are  encouraged to study and perfect 
yourself or not having it and then you are discouraged and guided to do 
something else. 
  
  People think that you are born with a genetical structure that will allow 
you to exhibit certain skills but you may, on the other hand, congenitally 
lack conditions to succeed in certain endeavors. 
  
Accordingly and although education is free through graduate school. Many 
people do not go to the University because they think that they lack the 
necessary conditions. 
  
People will say " He is very good for music" or " painting" or "dancing" 
etc. or else they will say 
"el no tiene oido para la musica" (he has no ear for music) , etc. 
  
With respect to dancing if you are not graceful from the very beginning you 
are classified as being "pata dura" (stiff legged). This classification is a 
terrible handicap very difficult to overcome. 
The frequent result is that you will never attempt to dance "because you are 
convinced that you have no conditions". 
  
In the States on the other hand it does not matter what natural ability you 
have or you do not have, you are encouraged to continue and acquire the 
maximum possible development within your possibilities. 
  
Here however children are also classified into "gifted" and then they are 
taught in a more accelerated form or "normal" or "handicapped" so that their 
education is adjusted to their degree of intelligence. 
  
Argentina has a tendency to mix children of different intelligence degree 
because it is though that this mixture is a reflection of life in general 
and prepares them better to live in society. 
Especial education is provided for handicapped children. 
  
The result of this mentality is that in the States you find a great number 
of mediocre dancers on the floor.  Although they may not be graceful or 
gifted they manage to socialize and have great fun dancing. 
  
In Argentina the number of such people is more reduced because the ones that 
were not "blessed" by nature do not dance. So they will have to have fun 
doing something different. 
  
I hope that this helps to understand, best regards, Sergio. 
  
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 02:30:00 EDT 
From:    Bill King <Euroking@AOL.COM> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Sergio, 
  
Good comments, cultural differences are real and important aspects of life, 
without a doubt. Ergo my comments on feeding trolls were an overreaction on my 
part to comments that struck a nerve. Lucia, I apologize, but I can never 
agree with the approach that segments elements of society early. 
  
As to many mediocre dancers, that is probably true anywhere, and I would 
venture to say in Argentina also, but less so.  My cultural bias is to engage, to 
try to bring out the best in a student (I teach skiing, not dancing but still 
a movement based activity.) Most of the time my students won't try something 
because their environment and attitude that has evolved from life experiences 
has told them they can't do something or they are too old (my students have 
ranged from 35-72). In some cases physical limitations do place a limit, but many 
times it is creating a belief within them that they can. You can't tell them 
that, you have to lead them there so they can experience it. You need their 
trust, and you need to see their limits, but blending the two together helping 
them to feel the confidence creates some really surprising results and some 
excellent skills. 
  
I hate prejudging someone's desire or creating an environment that will limit 
their growth in any endeavor, it is a hot button for me. Lucia pushed it, 
fairly and from a cultural point I missed, but none the less I can't accept the 
viewpoint, only recognize it does exist and the basis for its existence. 
  
Sergio, Thank you 
  
Bill 
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 04:20:51 -0600 
From:    Ron Weigel <tango.society@GMAIL.COM> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
On 10/24/05, WHITE 95 R <white95r@hotmail.com> wrote: 
  
 > ... There is nothing unethical about imparting classes to 
> someone who wishes to take them. On the contrary, it's admirable that a 
> teacher has the patience and forbearance, and cares enough about their 
> pupils to continue their efforts to teach them against apparently 
> insurmountable odds. 
> 
> Manuel 
 I've had some students who learn tango very slowly in the beginning 
but persist in their studies because of their love of tango and who 
become good (some very good) dancers over time. I've also had some 
students who learn rapidly in the beginning and then reach a plateau 
beyond which they never progress. Many in the latter group stop 
studying tango formally (in classes or workshops) after about 3-6 
months. In a number of these cases, they appear to be overly confident 
of their own abilities and do not want to be in classes with "less 
skilled" students. There is a correlation with age here (first group 
is older, second group younger) and, to be fair, the older students 
continue to study longer because they have either more time or money. 
  
I tell my students that the more I study tango, the more I become a 
beginner. Tango has so much to offer that the more you study it, the 
more humble you become in recognizing the limitations of your own 
ability compared to what can be achieved. 
  
Ron 
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 13:15:55 +0200 
From:    Ecsedy Áron <aron@MILONGA.HU> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
According to my observation (not just in tango, but all other kinds of 
dancing as well) 'born' talents are more prone to quitting dancing than 
'flops'.  
  
Most dancing talents I know started dancing as a child in academic form, or 
at least with very strong encouragement (usually verging on the border of 
forcing) on behalf of the parents. It is very rare that dancing talents who 
start dancing at an older age will remain with dancing (or at least not with 
ONE particular type of dancing).  
  
My theory is that it is probably because they don't get a feeling of 
accomplishment - it is too easy for them - so they look for something more 
challenging, or simply will give a lower priority to dancing (for them it 
doesn't require so much resources as other things afterall), so even if they 
dance, they do it at a lower 'heat level' (it will be 'just' one of the many 
things they do).  
  
Many of those who may be considered talented NOW, started as average or 
below-average dancers: or at least they THOUGHT they were when they started 
dancing - a view which impressed itself on their dancing and learning at 
that time. This was sometimes due to the fact that they had (or still have) 
too high expectations from themselves, or simply they have some personality 
(mainly self-confidence related) issues (or both), creating problems in the 
learning process, resulting in the objective impression that they don't have 
the talent. 
  
As for teaching the untalented: although I've ecountered some quite hopeless 
cases, I believe that anyone and everyone can be taught dancing. Obviously, 
I tell these people what kind of problems they have and the fact that it may 
take them longer to achieve the same level as others around them - but it 
can be done. It is up to them to decide if they want it or not. Those who do 
it improve as a person(ality) and as a dancer in parallel, overcoming 
inhibitions, self-confidence problems, communication problems, behaviour 
problems, along with improvement in coordination, rythmical sense, posture 
etc. This usually improves their dancing as well. 
  
Nonetheless, the biggest power is motivation. If a beginner has motivation 
then (s)he will find the way to improve himself. It may be a long way, but 
the results will be there. 
  
Holding 'entrance exams' for social dancing is absurd. If there would be 
such exams, social dancing would simply disappear or would be marginalized 
as a historical form of dancing. [we enough problems with mass culture, it 
would be utmost foolish to introduce something that could make social 
dancing even less attractive to the general public as it is now] Not to 
mention, that social dancing always included the untalented as well, because 
it was about socializing and not art. Of course there were times when the 
social requirement was to perform dancing as a sort of art, in these times 
untalented people spent a lot of time (and money) to learn the dance... 
  
As for cultural elitism: in Hungary we a have great deal of it. That is why 
it is so hard to bring people in to tango classes - even when tango stage 
performances are packed full, with the house sold a month before 
performance.  
  
Aron 
  
  
Ecsedy Áron 
*********** 
Aron ECSEDY 
  
Tel: +36 (20) 329 66 99 
ICQ# 46386265 
  
https://www.holgyvalasz.hu/ 
        * * * * * 
  https://www.milonga.hu/ 
  
"Follow those who seek the truth. 
Run from those who claim to have found it." 
  
"There is more than one way to cook an omlette."  
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 09:39:18 -0600 
From:    Tom Stermitz <stermitz@TANGO.ORG> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Interesting. 
  
Obviously, not everybody can be above average. 
  
But, there is a characteristic of many people in the US that I call 
"pseudo self-esteem". People who think they are talented, when in 
reality they are average. Sometimes there is the attitude of "It 
should take me only 3 or 6 lessons or the slightly more-enlightened 3 
- 6 months." You have a huge washout after the first month. They 
wouldn't approach martial arts or skiing or engineering that way. 
  
Retention and then actual success requires first convincing people 
that they CAN succeed, but also that it will take time and effort. 
  
  
Perhaps unrelated, but men in the US are not very likely to take 
private lessons, in comparison with women who are much more willing 
to pay for and dedicate themselves to private lessons. Are men just 
cheap? Or do they simply refuse to ask for directions? 
  
  
On the other hand, Immigrants from Eastern Europe or Russia seem to 
be much more driven to succeed by applying themselves through hard 
work. I notice everywhere I go in the US that we have greater 
proportion of Eastern European tango dancers than you would expect 
based on population. 
  
  
Sergio isn't completely correct, as I have in fact seen "dancers of 
little talent" in Argentina... and I'm not talking about foreigners 
clogging up certain milongas. 
  
  
You can also see the cultural clash when Argentines come to teach N. 
Americans. They frequently have no idea how to translate Tango to 
this culture. Sergio's suggestion partly explains this. Also, if they 
are very talented, as their stage credentials demonstrate, learning 
came so easy for them, that it is hard to understand the difficulties 
of mere mortals. 
  
  
  
On Oct 24, 2005, at 11:04 PM, Sergio Vandekier wrote: 
  
 > Lucia says:  "Some people are born athletes. Some are not. Some are 
> born 
> dancers, some are 
> not. These are natural traits, gifts, and one may not achieve the 
> hoped for 
> resultats, regardless of the effort put in." 
> 
> I can assure you that Lucia's view is shared by a great number of 
> Argentines. 
> 
> When it comes to any artistic activity you are classified very 
> early in life 
> as having aptitude and then you are  encouraged to study and perfect 
> yourself or not having it and then you are discouraged and guided 
> to do 
> something else. 
> 
>  People think that you are born with a genetical structure that 
> will allow 
> you to exhibit certain skills but you may, on the other hand, 
> congenitally 
> lack conditions to succeed in certain endeavors. 
> ... 
> 
> I hope that this helps to understand, best regards, Sergio. 
> 
   
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 04:07:56 -1200 
From:    Michael Ditkoff <tangomaniac@CAVTEL.NET> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Tom Stermitz wrote 
  
 > Interesting. 
> 
> Obviously, not everybody can be above average. 
> 
 Everybody is above average in Lake Wobegone, MN. 
  
Michael 
Washington, DC 
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 12:54:42 -0600 
From:    Paul Akmajian & Karen Reck <paulnkaren@EARTHLINK.NET> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
This post is from Karen: 
  
No Sean, we won't just let that matter drop & go on to "the general 
question." ;-) 
  
Barbara states that their student is also a good friend. That, combined with 
awareness of the problem by both student & teachers, clearly removes the 
"ethical" issue. Still Lucia chose to challenge Barbara's integrity, 
gratuitously IMO, cultural differences not aside. 
  
The notion of all instructors auditioning students in the real world of 
teaching a SOCIAL dance is unlikely (to be kind); if implemented I'd suspect 
it had more to do with the instructor's ego: screening for the best & 
brightest as evidence of their own "excellence" -- something of a hedged 
bet? 
  
In discussions with AT teachers re students who "don't get it" more than one 
related holding back from "releasing a hopeless case" only to have that 
student thank them later, saying that tango was the one thing that helped 
them through a very difficult time in their lives. Anyone may surprise our 
expectations; reminding ourselves of this keeps us humble. 
  
Sending a student to someone else presumes certain conditions. One would be 
that there is someone else to send them to (which is probably not the case 
in Puerto Vallarta). 
  
In communities with a number of AT instructors, I am wondering what kind of 
hold Sean is imagining an instructor has over their student that would 
prevent them from seeking other instruction if their current instruction 
isn't working for them? I doubt they've signed an expensive contract, and 
most class series are 6-8 sessions or less. 
  
I've co-coordinated a weekly class (on-going, all levels, drop-in) for the 
past 4 years. The few occasions we've suggested someone go elsewhere/leave 
include: when we very strongly feel there's a bad match in temperament; when 
someone is consistently argumentative or otherwise disruptive to others; 
when their comments/behavior indicate a preference for different style of 
dancing or teaching. We've had "hopeless cases" come back to us after months 
elsewhere or dropping out altogether. Some progress (amazingly) on their 
return & others may still (in our opinion) be hopeless, but as long as they 
have the will to get it, we won't turn them away. 
  
Karen Reck 
Albuquerque, NM 
https://www.tangodowntown.net 
  
P.S. Susana Miller's arms or hands-linked-line-across-the-floor rhythmic 
walking exercises are very effective. And as others have said, listening to 
the music as often as possible is invaluable. 
  
 > Lucia post is characteristically provocative, but I hardly think it 
> qualifies as trolling. She clearly identifies her perspective as "The 
> Contrarian view". She raises a valid point about ethics. If people will cool 
> their flame jets long enough to think the idea through, it is possible some 
> useful discussion will emerge. 
> 
> Christopher has adequately defended Barbara's ethical honor in this regard. 
> So how about we let that matter drop, and address the general question at 
> the root of Lucias comment: At what point should a teacher send a student 
> who has not shown significant progress to someone else? I think that in 
> general, it ought to be much sooner than one year. 
> 
> Sean 
> 
> P.S. My own provocative thoughts: Everyone can be taught; it's just easier 
> to teach people with a lot of natural talent. IMHO, If the student is not 
> learning, it is the fault of the teacher. A teacher who auditions students 
> recognizes his own limitations, and is doing a favor to those he does not 
> have the ability to teach. 
   
  
 
 
 
Date:    Tue, 25 Oct 2005 17:51:13 -0700 
From:    Iron Logic <railogic@YAHOO.COM> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
Dear Listoros, ...some quotes ==> 
  
* The race is not always won by the fastest runner but sometimes by those who just keep on running. 
  
* Life's battles don't always go / To the strongest or fastest man; / But sooner or later the man who wins / Is the man who thinks he can! 
  
* A quitter never wins and a winner never quits" 
  
  
  
Paul Akmajian & Karen Reck <paulnkaren@EARTHLINK.NET> wrote:This post is from Karen: 
  
No Sean, we won't just let that matter drop & go on to "the general 
question." ;-) 
  
Barbara states that their student is also a good friend. That, combined with 
awareness of the problem by both student & teachers, clearly removes the 
"ethical" issue. Still Lucia chose to challenge Barbara's integrity, 
gratuitously IMO, cultural differences not aside. 
  
The notion of all instructors auditioning students in the real world of 
teaching a SOCIAL dance is unlikely (to be kind); if implemented I'd suspect 
it had more to do with the instructor's ego: screening for the best & 
brightest as evidence of their own "excellence" -- something of a hedged 
bet? 
  
In discussions with AT teachers re students who "don't get it" more than one 
related holding back from "releasing a hopeless case" only to have that 
student thank them later, saying that tango was the one thing that helped 
them through a very difficult time in their lives. Anyone may surprise our 
expectations; reminding ourselves of this keeps us humble. 
  
Sending a student to someone else presumes certain conditions. One would be 
that there is someone else to send them to (which is probably not the case 
in Puerto Vallarta). 
  
In communities with a number of AT instructors, I am wondering what kind of 
hold Sean is imagining an instructor has over their student that would 
prevent them from seeking other instruction if their current instruction 
isn't working for them? I doubt they've signed an expensive contract, and 
most class series are 6-8 sessions or less. 
  
I've co-coordinated a weekly class (on-going, all levels, drop-in) for the 
past 4 years. The few occasions we've suggested someone go elsewhere/leave 
include: when we very strongly feel there's a bad match in temperament; when 
someone is consistently argumentative or otherwise disruptive to others; 
when their comments/behavior indicate a preference for different style of 
dancing or teaching. We've had "hopeless cases" come back to us after months 
elsewhere or dropping out altogether. Some progress (amazingly) on their 
return & others may still (in our opinion) be hopeless, but as long as they 
have the will to get it, we won't turn them away. 
  
Karen Reck 
Albuquerque, NM 
https://www.tangodowntown.net 
  
P.S. Susana Miller's arms or hands-linked-line-across-the-floor rhythmic 
walking exercises are very effective. And as others have said, listening to 
the music as often as possible is invaluable. 
  
 > Lucia post is characteristically provocative, but I hardly think it 
> qualifies as trolling. She clearly identifies her perspective as "The 
> Contrarian view". She raises a valid point about ethics. If people will cool 
> their flame jets long enough to think the idea through, it is possible some 
> useful discussion will emerge. 
> 
> Christopher has adequately defended Barbara's ethical honor in this regard. 
> So how about we let that matter drop, and address the general question at 
> the root of Lucias comment: At what point should a teacher send a student 
> who has not shown significant progress to someone else? I think that in 
> general, it ought to be much sooner than one year. 
> 
> Sean 
> 
> P.S. My own provocative thoughts: Everyone can be taught; it's just easier 
> to teach people with a lot of natural talent. IMHO, If the student is not 
> learning, it is the fault of the teacher. A teacher who auditions students 
> recognizes his own limitations, and is doing a favor to those he does not 
> have the ability to teach. 
   
  
  
  
 
 
 
Date:    Thu, 27 Oct 2005 17:35:45 +1000 
From:    Gary Barnes <garybarn@OZEMAIL.COM.AU> 
Subject: Re: How to teach rhythm? The Contrarian view - A question of Ethics 
  
I disagree. There is hope for the rhythmically challenged. It is 
unethical to make promises you cannot keep, but also unethical to tell 
someone they cannot learn something, when the only truth is that you 
have not been able (or think you will be unable) to teach them. 
  
I have seen people start with total inability to find rhythm in music 
(even marching), let alone distinguishing tango rhythms. After good 
teaching, commitment and time, they can suddenly 'find the music' and 
start dancing tango musically - sometimes after years of effort. 
  
Dancing tango does not require native talent. Talent will make it much 
much easier and quicker, and increase the chance that you become 
expert. People without existing dance skills, musicality, athleticism 
etc can learn to dance tango well. I have seen it. 
  
As for teachers auditioning students - well it depends what the teacher 
wants to do. If you want to only produce exceptional dancers, then 
audition. But an excellent teacher can teach almost anyone - though 
they cannot teach everyone to be exceptional! 
  
And almost anyone can teach an exceptional student. 
  
my 2.2 c 
Gary 
  
who can dance tango a bit now 
  
  
On 25/10/2005, at 11:11 AM, Lucia wrote: 
  
 > 
> 
> What amazes me is that you have continued teaching this person for one 
> year, raising his hopes while being totally aware of his problem. The 
> teachers that I know hold an audition for the prospective pupils, and 
> reject those without talent. 
> 
> I consider this case being on the border of ethical behavior. 
> 
> 
> 
>> Dear listeros, 
>> Al and I are struggling with a challenge we haven't met before. One of 
>> our students seems to have absolutely no sense of rhythm. ... 
   
 
    
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