4308  What Guys Want

Date: Wed, 24 May 2006 09:51:32 -0700 (PDT)
From: "Trini y Sean \(PATangoS\)" <patangos@yahoo.com>
Subject: [Tango-L] What Guys Want

--- chris wrote:

>The feeling the guy gives the girl is by
>definition tango reality, not at all illusion.

>Don't expect many protests, Sean.

>Chris

Sean Here.

You just don't get it Chris. Tango is a two way
street. It is not enough for the man to give the
woman "the feeling". The woman has to return the
favor. Those women who can do this are sought after
by the men, and never have to chase guys down the
corridor. You have probably never danced with a woman
like this Chris, as they tend to be even pickier
about men than I am about the women I dance with.

For beginning men, it is enough for a woman to be
there. For intermediate men, it is enough if the
woman can more or less follow his routine as he works
through his repertoire of steps. But to reach the
murky depths and dizzy heights of tango, the woman
has to be as active as the man in creating the dance.
She has as much responsibility to him as he has to
her.

Some women just want to be carried to that tango
high, without giving anything back. Some guys might
call that a charity dance. I call it an illusion,
or "one to tango". For me, it takes two.

Sean

P.S. Unfortunately, I didn't expect the protests, or
at least I wasn't prepared for how loud, long, and
viciously rabid they have been. Maybe that's why I'm
bitchin' on the 'L.

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